Parents Dealing With Troubled Child

Sometimes it becomes a most difficult task to handle a troubled child and keeping patience with them. Every parent had gone through this situation and much time it becomes frustrating and overwhelming, but as a parent you can do a lot to help them out with their problem. What techniques should be applied to change the behavior of the troubled child? Here are some tips for which can help you on solving your problem.

Advice for parents to deal with troubled child:-

• Identify the problem- for this it is important to talk to your kids, because communication is the key to success. This is an effective way to know the through what they are going and what is disturbing them.
• Look for change in the behavior- As a parent it’s your responsibility to identify what’s behind the change in behavior such as not eating properly, stopped playing, not communicating with anyone or aggressiveness. If you see these symptoms need to take a right action.
• Observe and learn- if your child is going through any emotional or mental   problem. Knowing what the cause may actually help to understand the child unwanted behavior.
• Monitoring technical items- always keep a watch on kids that they are watching on TV and computers. Keep a limited access of internet including to whom they are talking or texting.
• Teaching Discipline- sometime it becomes difficult to understand the children that they are naughty or just want to distract to get focused. At this time teaching discipline is inappropriate and only causes further distress.
• Positive attitude should be applied- when there is a balance children behave in a better way. It is important a child is praised for a good behavior, this encourages further good behavior. Emphasize on the positives qualities of your child, this will change the behavior of your child and help him to behave in a good way.
• Knowing our child mental health- if you find your child is mentally ill give him intense love and empathy, this help parents in tolerating unacceptable behavior.

Understanding the troubled child and their behavior can prevent them from behaving negatively and making them lot calmer and less aggressive. The unwanted behavior will be seen as frustration, where your child needs your help. By encouraging good behavior can prevent bad behavior. Both the parents plays a important role in understanding the behavior of child and guide and lead him in a positive way including communication, discipline, health and safety. Parents have to effectively connected to them with love.

How To Deal With Teenager’s………..

This is that part of life that everyone of has gone through. Where we want to be carefree, without any restrictions have fun and enjoy every moment of our life and making it memorable.

But every teenager does not go through a carefree life, pressure from parents and teacher in getting good marks in studies for making respectable career. Every parent should understand the feeling of and problem of their teen kids. They should understand they had also gone through this process of life. Many time parents are not able to understand the problem of their teenagers and fail to deal with their problems.

In their educations centers they go through juggling extracurricular activities and school work, where they have to face pressure from both the sides. This pressure can lead them to a stressful life. Due to this some of them becomes stubborn and may lead to wrong society. This can lead their life in darkness. To avoid this situation parents need to have conversation with their teens to peer pressure and support them with a healthy discussion and decisions.

Beneath lies some methods for parents, which can be use to make a healthy discussion like a friends:-

1. Always have healthy conversation with your teen and don’t lecture them. To make your discussion effective make it a two-way dialogue, instead of just telling them about dos and does not.
2. Talk through they ways, which are more understandable with your teen and which he/she can able to handle in different situations of life and decreases the pressure on them by risking their life in drugs or any medicine abuse.
3. Freedom is a normal part of every growing teen. But some parents always want that their child should depend on them—but this fact is not accept by many parents. As a result their teenagers are not yet adults and always remain depended on everyone.
4. Parents of the teen have to think lot about their teen independence and should show trust on them.  This builds a strong relationship between parent and teen.
5. Always pay attention to your teen, such as keep information about there friends, about their teacher, what classes they are attending, what sports they like. Just make a casual talking and not a lecturing.
6. Most important thing give some time to them from your busy scheduled and make them feel important and secure. If they are facing any problem, go for a friendly talk and them comfortable. Do not try to do over parenting, behaving like this may lead your teen in a wrong direction.

Teenage is very tough age, where teenage hormonal changes are at the extreme level. In this stage they want to be free and want to establish their own identity and want to live life in their own way. With parent little support, healthy decisions and positive attitude towards their teen can lead to healthy relationship between both of them