This is that part of life that everyone of has gone through. Where we want to be carefree, without any restrictions have fun and enjoy every moment of our life and making it memorable.
But every teenager does not go through a carefree life, pressure from parents and teacher in getting good marks in studies for making respectable career. Every parent should understand the feeling of and problem of their teen kids. They should understand they had also gone through this process of life. Many time parents are not able to understand the problem of their teenagers and fail to deal with their problems.
In their educations centers they go through juggling extracurricular activities and school work, where they have to face pressure from both the sides. This pressure can lead them to a stressful life. Due to this some of them becomes stubborn and may lead to wrong society. This can lead their life in darkness. To avoid this situation parents need to have conversation with their teens to peer pressure and support them with a healthy discussion and decisions.
Beneath lies some methods for parents, which can be use to make a healthy discussion like a friends:-
- Always have healthy conversation with your teen and don’t lecture them. To make your discussion effective make it a two-way dialogue, instead of just telling them about dos and does not.
- Talk through they ways, which are more understandable with your teen and which he/she can able to handle in different situations of life and decreases the pressure on them by risking their life in drugs or any medicine abuse.
- Freedom is a normal part of every growing teen. But some parents always want that their child should depend on them—but this fact is not accept by many parents. As a result their teenagers are not yet adults and always remain depended on everyone.
- Parents of the teen have to think lot about their teen independence and should show trust on them. This builds a strong relationship between parent and teen.
- Always pay attention to your teen, such as keep information about there friends, about their teacher, what classes they are attending, what sports they like. Just make a casual talking and not a lecturing.
- Most important thing give some time to them from your busy scheduled and make them feel important and secure. If they are facing any problem, go for a friendly talk and them comfortable. Do not try to do over parenting, behaving like this may lead your teen in a wrong direction.
Teenage is very tough age, where teenage hormonal changes are at the extreme level. In this stage they want to be free and want to establish their own identity and want to live life in their own way. With parent little support, healthy decisions and positive attitude towards their teen can lead to healthy relationship between both of them
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